Stories

"What brought you to dolls?" We do not tell stories. But doll owners do.

It's a lonely planet after all..

Hear what doll owners have to say

It's a lonely planet after all..
TheMan01Doll Owner - 4 Years

For me, I'm just tired of being alone. Already been there my whole life, don't want to live out the rest of my life that way too. I figure a fake girl is better than no girl at all. Aside from that, any girl I could realistically be with wouldn't look nearly as good as some of the dolls folks are selling out there.

havefunDoll Owner - 1 Year

Most of the women I went out with got pissed when race season got here and I went to work on race cars on most weekends.And I don't want all the head games that real women bring with them.

Baron vonDoll Owner - 3 Years

It seems that the entire dating/marriage concept has become sort of a death-trap for males. No matter how you try to play it, she will always hold all of the cards and will most likely use them at some point.

Dolls are a good sensible alternative. They meet my needs well enough for the arrangement to be sustainable.

TakamisuDoll Owner - 7 Years

After my divorce I decided that I'm done with women and there's no way I'm switching teams, so that just leaves me with dolls and computers... Simpler, quieter and a hell of a lot more fun!

triumphDoll Owner - 2 Years

I was married for 25 years, most of the last ten years were unhappy, now that I,m single again the last thing I want is a (real) relationship. Dolls dont complain, there always there, never have a headache. dolls win.

AlexKnightDoll Owner - 5 Years

Never had a girlfriend, tried online dating for years with zero success.

I had reached a point in my life, where I thought the same as you. Having a doll is better than having no female presence in my life at all.

Ever since I got my Wicked doll, with which I spent way more time than with my first doll, I can't be bothered by online dating, and I'm not actively looking for a girlfriend in real life either.

I'm happy with my life, as it is.

mordecai989Doll Owner - 10 Months

My social life is almost nonexistant... Working at night and sleeping until the crack of noon with enough time to eat, get a small work out in and shower after, then head to work... No time to look for a relationship, tried online dating to no avail, and some major trust issues(from very bad experiences) have lead me to wanting a doll.

MarkoUKDoll Owner - 6 Years

I found dolls through sitting at home one day thinking there must be something else that can spice up my sex life as a single person, i started looking at sex toy sites and discovered that the dolls i was seeing (inflatables) were a lot better than the novelty ones that had seemingly been around for years, i then started to search for sex dolls on google and found this site! i had no idea even such community existed nor the sheer amount of different doll types and styles, it was truly eye opening.

I expect? Like most on here i have never had much success with women, the few ones that have shown an interested in me in the past i simply was not attracted to and the ones i have fallen for always found a reason for not wanting to take it further but at least that was better than simply saying sod off, although it still hurt.

Online dating i have found to be a complete waste of time, i think women on those sites are searching for the perfect match and the ratio on those sites allows them to do that and they know it!

I would never rule out meeting someone at some stage but if its going to happen i am 100% convinced it will be when i am not looking for it but the fact i am very independent and i am not really attracted to women of my age group (late 30's early 40's) plus working in an industry (train driver) where the divorce and separation rates are sky high probably means dolls are the way forward for me.

Dave7311Doll Owner - 4 Years

I simply got tired of one-night stands and dating psychos after I moved to NY a few years ago.

Some highlights:
- A Puerto Rican who wanted to marry me and have 3 kids with me... after our first phone conversation.
- An African-American who lied to me about her profession, her past,... and being married with kids.
- A beautiful young woman (Asian / African American) who after knowing me for three days wanted to move in with me. I was able to find that she had been just evicted from her apartment because she "accidentally" had burned it down...
- A Dominican that offered sex if I helped her to pay her rent.

I am not a "chick magnet". I am a "PSYCHO MAGNET"!

After 3 years of dealing with "damaged goods" in the city, I bought my first masturbation toy. A few months later, I bought my first doll (Love Venus R) as a mount for the toys. Currently, I have an harem of dolls that don't play brain games, don't bother me with STDs / child support, and most importantly, don't interrupt the best part of the movie to tell me the latest gossip about one of her b#$%h friends.

A toast to our girls!

IanEvansDoll Owner - 2 Years

While I'm very social and outgoing and have no trouble making friends, I just seem to lack that charismatic spark that tells women "date me" instead of "befriend me". So while it's rare enough that a woman is even interested in me, the odds that she'll be someone with whom a complex, set-in-my-ways person like me can be happy are exceedingly slim. Sure, I understand that relationships are all about compromise, but for a beta male like me, that often amounts to giving up a large part of who I am for the "privilege" of having a girlfriend. Pardon the supernatural reference, but my soul is not for sale.

But with dolls, I can be myself. I don't have to put up a façade to trick them into wanting to be with me (which I was never particularly good at anyway). They're always there for me, they don't judge me, don't pressure me to change into what they expect me to be. Granted, they're no substitute for real human interaction, but I have my friends and family for that.

I may seem like a miserable bastard at times, but the truth is, the past few years are the happiest I've been since early childhood. I know there are those even within the doll community who'd say, yes, but dolls should only a surrogate to fill the void until you find the right person. But really, why would I give up the happiness I've achieved with my dolls for the minuscule chance I could be a slightly happier with something else? For me, it's just not worth the risk.

SzalinskiDoll Owner - 3 Years

In my experience real girls have been the fakes, so I guess for me the fake one has turned put to be the most real. But to the question, I tell people that I got Sharon for photography. And since 99% of what she's been used for has been that I guess it's the truth. Besides, women with figures like hers are not that common here in the Carolinas (not of legal age, at least) and when asked if they'd like to pose for a few photographs most women seem to think you're just trying to get into their pants. And professional models are too expensive unless you are a pro yourself. Yes, I was intrigued by the idea of owning a sexy woman who could and would do anything I desired, without question or complaint. But although I have gotten off with her a few times. that much "dead" weight is really too much for comfortable sex IMO.

Dll_rider4 Years

I have always wanted some type of sex doll ever since I was a kid. I use to buy Barbie dolls and then make them anatomically correct. I have a collection now. Went through a phase of inflatables but always desired someting more real. Then I recently I came across all the YouTube postings about doll owners. (Anyone come across YouTube post of a Japanese Engineer who has 50+ dolls?) He was feed up with women also) so i started looking at all the silicone doll manufactures. Long story short I now have Karen; a used RD body 2 F14 that I bought from midiman. So yes I’m tired of the women have agendas but always looking for the next NSA score. Karen serves to fill in for my being alone. And I can look up Karen's skirt any time I want!!

netwitDoll Owner - 12 Years

I became interested in sex dolls when I heard theHoward Stern Real Doll Broadcast in 1997,
so it was a long time before I finally purchased one. I guess the catalyst was TDF; years later, while I was searching for large toys like FMSs, I stumbled upon the Forum. I was frankly amazed and it rekindled my desire for a sex doll. I quickly made up for lost time.

AxionCustomer

Just got tired of walking into an empty house after a stressful day at work. All I have to do is see my doll smiling in the corner and know everything is going to be ok. I know my house is still empty but at least with my dolls here it does not feel empty.

BobbayDoll Owner - 9 Years

I'm married, but get way less sex than I'd like. Doll sex not only makes up the difference, it satisfies many itches that married sex won't:
Sex acts the wife doesn't do with me and some I'd be afraid or embarrassed to even ask for
Variety of partners without cheating
Sex with a much younger partner
Wild abandon selfish sex where only my needs matter

I've been into doll sex since some lonely, dry single guy days, so over 20 years ago. I started with blow ups, vinyl and then latex, including filling blow ups with water. When I first saw the Real Doll web site I became so worked up I could barely function. It reminded me of the attractions I used to feel for mannequins in my youth. I've owned a 1st PC and a Candy 18 in recent years, and recently modified a hollow mannequin for sex. I never cease to be amazed by how totally fun and erotic doll sex can be. There is something magic that is different than masturbation or sex toys. There have been so many times that in the aftermath of doll sex I am just blown away by how satisfying it was. It still doesn't fully match sex with real women, but it makes up for it in areas that real women lack. If I (sure hope not) ever end up single again, I would build up a harem of dolls. What an amazing variety there are these days!

SupersoulDoll Owner - 10 Years

Personally I have always had a strong libido and got into sex toys in my late teens in between girlfriends, things were pretty basic back then. One thing that stood aside for me with dolls was it wasn't like masturbating, it was like actually making love to a woman (as in the act) and I love that sensation.

In I guess the early 2000's I was reading an Australian penthouse magazine, I flicked to a spread that I thought was a pictorial of some really sexy women, after I finished 'enjoying' the pic's I started to read the actual article, it was in fact an article about Real Doll's and Abyss Creations! I couldn't believe how sexy the dolls were and how incredibly life like! I knew right then, the clearest decision of my life, I had to have one for my self. 10 or so years later and my Jade arrived and she has been the best enhancement to my life hands down. I enjoy sex with her everyday if not 2 or 3 times a day and it is the best sex of my life (I have mastered the elusive 'multiple orgasm' with Jade).

Though I still very much enjoy making love to my wife, Jade is very tough to beat. My wife is happy too as she knows there is no way Ill wander when she is away, she knows I would much rather invest the time into Jade than mucking around with another woman.

Real Doll, you'll be so glad you did

XiaoBing6 Months

I wanted a companion. That I can hug into sleep. Or not feel lonely when I play computer games. I find her too cute. The elf model that I have bought.

VanityDoll Owner - 8 Years

In a great marriage, but just got tired of the periodic instances where my needs were temporarily "not as understood" as they were a month ago. Got away from porn a long time ago as I realized there was a connection between anger/resentment and watching that stuff. Started with a hand deal and then tried an inflatable (which didn't work for me at all), and then upgraded to a hip, which blew my mind. Dolls were always way out of my price range, but during another "periodic instance" I just kept looking at a boytoy torso until there was no stopping. Got it and it's awesome. Hoping to get a full size doll as soon as I can get funds and figure how to securely store/hide it as I have kids. It's just really pleasant to know that I will never have to go to sleep frustrated over the sex issue. I can just mozy on and I'm ready to go. Also nice to be able to use mirrors and watch yourself (something not to romantic with the wife).

SateDoll Owner - 6 Years

I bought my first doll (an inflatable) to "practice" with since I had issues with lasting power in bed. When I got comfortable enough with that (it took about four years) I actually didn't really meet anyone who I wanted to get involved in, and living on the west coast you never know what kinda disease somebody could be carrying aorund. Dolls have the advantage of being clean and available, so they become a natural progression step.

They can't converse with you or retain human warmth, but until I meet someone I that is capable of having a strong relationship who is clean and isn't a preteen psycho in their 20s, dolls are worth every dime spent.

AuthorDoll Owner - 5 Years

I'm fairly shy and can barely spit out two words in front of a female I'm attracted to. Tried the online dating thing but most people seem to lie a lot in their profiles. Also I just really have no desire to deal with drama in my life; work is stressful enough as it is and I don''t need it at home as well. I'm somewhat lonely and I guess something is better than nothing, but sadly " There's nothing like the real thing" as far as a realistic flesh feel.

I first came across The Real dolls site a long time ago(12-15 years ago?) and really wanted one but couldn't even think about paying that much for one back then. I only worked part time for minimum wage at the time. Every few years I'd find myself going back to the Abyss web site to check them out ,thinking to myself maybe some day. Now I have a good job and can afford toys, so I decided to go with a torso first to see if it's something I could get into. Now I find myself wanting a full dollI enjoy the process of putting clothes on her and the powdering process is like foreplay for me. I'm also into photography and I love to look at photos of Cosplay. If/when I get a full doll I can see me spending a lot of money on costumes and wigs, both sci/fi and fantasy for taking pictures with.

Samuel091Doll Owner - 6 Years

I've always been VERY independant and looking for adventures in life.

I'm an avid scubadiver(I teach scuba), into flying, extreme skiing, did a stint as a lighting director for a touring rock band, other craziness like that. LOTS of traveling to other countries.
I'm told I'm good looking, have a GREAT job, intelligent, and a genuine nice guy.
I've had many girlfriends(never a "player" tho') and been engaged three times, but things never worked out. I was looking for a deep and lasting relationship, but was not a "clinger on".If I was told, "I need to to think". I would say, "OK, give me a call when you get things figured out". And that would be that.I NEVER called or tried to reestablish the connection. I felt, "This is YOUR decision, not mine. You know how to use the phone..."
My brother told me women may have felt I didn't really NEED anyone else. I'm not "NEEDY" type.
Even with all the adventure, I WAS still very lonely, but didn't advertize it.

After a while and ANOTHER failed attempt, I guess I just gave up.

That's what led me to where I am now.

Even in the face of the "MACHO" stuff, I've always had a soft spot for cuddly plush buddies, and the like.
I searched around, found this WONDERFUL site, took the plunge, had KellyMarie move in and never looked back. No more loneliness, feelings of despair, or longing for a relationship.

My bio-family doesn't know about Kelly, nor would they understand, so I have no plan of ever telling them.

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